Fishing Q&A
What should I do about my husband's crazy family?
Does anyone on here know what it's like to have a disfunctional family? We just came back from vacation on a ranch. ATV ridin' , horseback ridin', fishing...it was fun, besides my husband's sister and his mom arguing like literally every 3 seconds. They are also very controlling. My mother-in-law did not ask if she could use my baby's inflatable pool for her 8 yr old, he was too big for it anyways and when i questioned her about it she started cussing and yelling to her son to get out of the d@m% pool. They are so crazy, when my husband and I were coming back to the dock from fishing in the pond, i was trying to tie the rope on the dock to hold the boat in place, and my sister-in-law was like LET IT GO, GIVE IT TO ME! And just took the rope from me. I talked to my husand about it and he was like "If she wasn'ts to tie the rope just let her, it is no big deal anyways, just ignore her." I have tried to ignore their ways for two years n I'm getting sick and tired of them acting that way. My mom says I should stay away from them bc it is not good for my 9mth old baby to be around them. They are always yelling and cussing and having attitudes and trying to order people around. My husband seems to just think I can look over this all of the time but I do not want my baby growing up around a disfuntional family. What should I do? Does anyone else have the same problem? How do you handle it?
Public Comments
- I was in the same situation, but instead of being the mom, i was the child stuck in the middle of it all. But then later on I was the mom. I know that your husband isn't really going to help you in this, and I know that this sounds crazy, but, you need to get out of there. You have to stop any relationship you have with them. Move, do whatever you have to. When I was young my brother and I grew up seeing my Grandmother often, but when I was about 5, and my brother 10, she started lying to us about our mother. Saying unspeakable things. It affected my brother very negatively, he became very angry, and unhappy. He started to dislike out mom, and then a lot of things happened. You need to get your kids out of there. I don't want to see this happen to anyone. If you need somone to talk to, you can email or IM me. Good luck.
- You are going to have problems with your husband as far as keeping the baby away from his family.(even if your Mom is right)You need to tell your husband that you will not look over what his family is doing as it is not your values in how to treat people.You have the right to let them know and not be treated like them.So tell your husband that if they can talk to you the way they want then you have the right to do the same your way.Let your husband know that you want your child to show love for one another like you and him do
