Fishing Q&A
Can anyone give me some advice please?
Does anyone on here know what it's like to have a disfunctional family? We just came back from vacation on a ranch. ATV ridin' , horseback ridin', fishing...it was fun, besides my husband's sister and his mom arguing like literally every 3 seconds. They are also very controlling. My mother-in-law did not ask if she could use my baby's inflatable pool for her 8 yr old, he was too big for it anyways and when i questioned her about it she started cussing and yelling to her son to get out of the d@m% pool. They are so crazy, when my husband and I were coming back to the dock from fishing in the pond, i was trying to tie the rope on the dock to hold the boat in place, and my sister-in-law was like LET IT GO, GIVE IT TO ME! And just took the rope from me. I talked to my husand about it and he was like "If she wasn'ts to tie the rope just let her, it is no big deal anyways, just ignore her." I have tried to ignore their ways for two years n I'm getting sick and tired of them acting that way. My mom says I should stay away from them bc it is not good for my 9mth old baby to be around them. They are always yelling and cussing and having attitudes and trying to order people around. My husband seems to just think I can look over this all of the time but I do not want my baby growing up around a disfuntional family. What should I do? Does anyone else have the same problem? How do you handle it? Asked this earlier but did not get very many answers.
Public Comments
- your mum(mom) is right, tell your husband you cant just look over it and that you dont think its good for your baby, if he doesnt understand then tell him you dont want anything to do with his family by the sounds of it they dont seem like they would actually care, so at the end of the day why should you!
- You love your husband and married him. The implication is that you are supposed to take the family with him. (For better or worse). Now, here's the issue: you are raising a child and you don't want the child to turn out like his sister. (Or listen to their nonsense). As far as your child turning out badly, it sounds like your husband escaped well, but sees it as pretty normal. You could sit down with him and ask him "How would you feel if our child talked like that to me or to you? I know you love your sister, and I care for her too. I just would like our baby to experience as much love and as little cursing and anger as possible." (or if that doesn't work, my mean idea is to teach your child a hideous curse and when your husband hears the baby say it, he'll maybe understand.- Don't do that). If anything, your child will hopefully see the difference in you and your sister-in-law and will see a fine example of how not to behave.
- Im sorry to hear this i may only be a 13 yearold girl but i know family crisises hurt people in the heart heres the advise: Ignore the arguing try reading to get out of the zone or teaching your baby new things Stand your ground to the mother-in-law and try and make a truce Take a step back and think about watching this for yourself and then the answer will come to you. If anything happens and you find it too much to handle talk to your husband. if this doesnt work stay somewhere else for a while for some time to think and your husband should understand. But do come back bit bye bit this helped me loads when i stoped seeing my dad Best of luck
