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all he does is play is computer game! He plays World of Warcraft all the time! He can't stay up and have fun with me and some friends drinking past 1am, but he'll play his game til 4am! He wakes up in the morning at 10am and play till 4am and plays everyday after work! HELP!!! He is also disrespectful and rude and seems uninterested in sex! I am in the Air Force and really need some insight from other people. Is this normal? When we were dating he would get obsessed with his x-bax online games or playstation2 for a few weeks then get over it. UGH! We used to do things..like hunting, camping, fishing, etc. Now, he wont even go out of the house! HELP I've told him that this game is taking over his life. He's really spolied, so think about it as if you were talking to a kid. I've made jokes about him not wanting to do things because it takes away from his gaming time, but it's hard. He gets really angry easily. I spoil him to death. He have a 42" plasma tv that he used to use for his game, but it started to ruin it so I got him a 20" screen, bose headphones, and desk and computer gaming chair. He complained at first because the 20" screen "wasn't the same" but noe he's used to it. Tiff- I am depressed. I want to see someone for help. He does nothing so I do nothing. Our house is a MESS! I do nothing but watch tv all day. His lazy attitude has rubbed on to me

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  1. OK sit him down and talk to him and let him know how you feel. That is the only way that you will get your point across OK.
  2. Looks like you may have been a victim of the "dating persona." Now that he has his girl married to him he doesn't have to try as hard or so he thinks.
  3. I suggest talking to him. You are his wife and as a wife you require his attention from time to time! You have known about his obsessions before you got married as you are writing, so you cant expect him to give up everything now, he will only get into defensive mode and shut you out. you shoudl talk to him and explain him, that you also need time and affection, and together you can work you a "time schedule" for his and your time. Good luck!
  4. Your baby is depressed about something....You can be depressed and not know it.....
  5. break his computer. world of warcraft is a never-ending game. doing something drastic is the only thing that will free his mind from the addiction of video-gaming. i should know; i used to be obsessed with them.
  6. why not try asking him about it?! tell him that you also need time from him and not a one way street kind of a relationship. ask him if you guys could do those stuff you usually do before. or maybe do something sexy to attract his attention, there are lots of good ways to get his attention on this matter. just don't nag when you start to talk to him. cause men really hates when their girl nags everytime! I prefer sex the whole day rather than play a game--it's just my own opinion anyway. goodluck girl!!!
  7. Have you tried addressing your concerns with him? If not bring up to him let him know just how upset you are with him for spending more time with his game than he does with you. Tell him that you love him and you have needs. Tell him you feel neglected. Let him know just how much this is bothering you! If he fails to listen... Well, you have to use your own judgment where to go from there. USAF
  8. Yeah so did my husband,he would play WOW for what felt like forever,we have a child,so it got on my nerves. Then I explained to him that I understood that the game was all about meeting a goal and it was fun to try to acheive,but he was forgetting about his goals in life,and that he was forgetting about us and family stuff. He finally realized that he was becoming addicted now he plays a couple times a week,and some x-box in between.I got him to go to a park and play baskettball,hoping to help him see theres more to do out here. And it actually worked! Maybe you can help your husband by reintroducing him to the things he liked before,other than video games,and be honest with how you feel,just try to not get too angry because they just shut off when you do and the sex thing,not sure if you tried this but buy some new lingerie,or if you have some he already really likes,get it out and on and when your alone with him just walk around in it,and he should come to his senses. :) Dont be shy about letting him know you have needs too.
  9. safely married? he feels comfortable!
  10. 1. let him buy his own stuff for his games, if this is a bother to you. 2. He will not stay up until 1am to drink with you and some friends? Why do you stay up drinking with some friends? Cut down the time you spend with friends and he may be interested to spend more time with you. 3. He seems uninterested in sex? Maybe he thinks you are getting what you need by drinking till 1am with friends. 4. He is obsessed with his x-bar games or play-station? Would you rather he be obsessed with friends? If the happens, you will not like it. You used to do things, like hunting, camping fishing, ect. Now he won't even go out of the house? How many of these friends were included when you were doing these things? Maybe this is what he is using to escape the involvement of so many (drinking) friends. The problem you are having is because he is tired of the friends. I say this because I faced it. I was in the air force, and my ex-wife was more interested in having friends. It is OK to have friends, but they should not be allowed to be in the area everyday or all day, especially until past 1am. Cut back on time with friends. Just sit and watch him and his game until you get a little understanding about it so you can spend a little time playing his game with him.
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