Fishing Q&A - Do Girls Want To Do Anything With Their Lives Other Than Get Married?

Do Girls Want To Do Anything With Their Lives Other Than Get Married?

... and to get a house and raise kids? Guys seem to have more interests (but I could be wrong). Guys like to be good at sports, to mountain climb, to work on cars, to get a great job and earn a lot of money by working hard, to build houses, to hunt, to fish, to sail boats, to become "powerful." Girls seem to seldom show that they have any goal / purpose other than to get married and have kids I think a girl is really really attractive when she shows that she has a passion and can accomplish so much more than other girls tend to do.

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YES they want a lot of things
well i go out doors and do thing i am aoutside girl and yes all girls are different thats why we (girls) are sometimes oh i have to gt married and stuff like that or some of us think that the real world is bigger then that...
it has always seemed that way to me also..............but....wait till they do get married and everything they do changes and they become as cold a a freezer with their guy.i think it's funny.
As you said, girls do crave for all these but they can also match guys in allost all aspects mentioned by you and they really are proving that. The one mentioned by you are additional bonuses god has given the girls!!
Women have goals. BUT they are not as shelfish as men, so when they end up having kids..they put there goals on the back burner. MEN on the other hand, don't change at all. They still buy the hotrod to fix up and they still go hunting and leave us home w/ the kids. And you mentioned being more powerful....we are not shallow and we don't base our life values on how much money we make.
Sure. being good at sports and being an experent remote control operator are my ultimate goals in life. NOT! I work, I volunteer at church, I have two degrees, and I'm within like two semesters of two more, I fish, I write, I cook (good stuff, not frozen pizza like most men), I deliver my husband's dinner to his work place almost every night. And I don't think I've accomplished that much in this life. You need to reevalute your narrow minded opinion, dade!
I'm a girl and I do want to get married and have kids but I want to do so much more. I want to live in NYC i want to go to college i just want to do something BEFORE i get married. (I really like kids and am considering working with them for a career)
It does seem like that at a very young age, girls seem to focus on boys whereas boys develop an interest much later. And when the do develope and interest, the girl is still not the focus of his life. I think it is because boys/men have such a variety of interests. I think girls/women should be the same way. Look at some of the kid shows on t.v., even on the Disney channel. The girls are always chasing or is interested in some boy. It's pretty much like that in real life which is really pathetic because these girls grow up to be emotionally dependent on men with no self esteem.
I believe it is good for young women to muster up self esteem before marrying and having children. Self esteem comes in many packages of different shapes. For one it might be a degree in education, for others it could be the person is an accomplished musician. Most people find self esteem within the workplace. Going into a marriage and then immediately having children is not always a good decision. Often young women find themselves depending upon their husbands for their sole validation. Being put into the position of the women’s only source of validation is often an enormous burden for the man and strains the relationship. A marriage is a union of two separate people. Before marriage women should consider becoming a whole person, a person who can look into a mirror and truthfully say “I am a really nice person, I’m smart, I have great friends, any man would be lucky to marry a person like me”. If a man is looking for a potential wife then, over the long term, a women that has interests outside of the marriage, feels worth and accomplishment outside of the marriage, will more likely breeze through the marriage and treat it as it is intended, not as her entire life.